Why Are You Paying Attention to Me?

Jean-François Millet, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons

“Why are you so helpful? Why are you paying attention to me? I’m only a foreigner.” Ruth 2:10 GW [Context– Ruth 2:8-16– see full devotional text in the link below]

One of the existential questions of life is—Does my life have significance? Does my life matter to anyone but me? It’s a reasonable question, especially since we are one person among 8.2 billion people in the world.

Every human life has significance—even those unborn in the womb—because each person is created in the image of God. This makes each of us significant to God. But we are significant to our families, as well.

It’s easy to see this in healthy families with a good sense of well-being. But even in dysfunctional families or those torn apart by divorce, mental illness, alcoholism or drug addiction, poverty, war, or any other detrimental situation, including death.

My wife and I witnessed this while raising our own children as foster parents. We saw the same thing as surrogate parents for the children and abused girls we cared for in the Philippines for nearly a quarter of a century. Every child has significance and worth, yet we all wonder what our purpose is in life at some point.

God’s Favor is His unmerited goodness towards us

As the story of Ruth the Moabitess unfolds, we see her surprised at God’s favor in her life. Many people find it difficult to grasp the truth of God’s favor. Two simple reasons come to mind—we don’t deserve it and we can’t earn or receive it based on good deeds.

God gives His favor for His purposes. He doesn’t extend His favor based on a person’s goodness, but He does grant it to us for our benefit. It’s God’s blessing, His grace given to someone for His purposes.

But how is it possible for someone to receive His favor?

The simplest, most direct way to receive God’s favor is to trust in Him. Here is what we’re told in the book of Hebrews—

No one can please God without faith. Whoever goes to God must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who seek him. (Hebrews 11:6 GW)

Faith in God is an implicit trust in God. And this is what we see in Ruth and why she receives God’s favor. It started when she chose to trust in the God of Naomi—the God of Israel—the One, True, and Living God.

We see her confession of faith when she says, “Your people will be my people, and your God will be my God” (Ruth 1:16c). We see God’s favor shown to her through Boaz. Why? He knows of her faith in God and her faithfulness in character (Ruth 2:11). Others knew the testimony of her faith. Her trust in God preceded her.

Ruth is unaware of why God’s favor rests upon her, but she knows she neither deserved nor earned the favor Boaz bestowed upon her. She sees it when he tells her to stay in his field, to stay with the young women, and to drink the water drawn by his young men (Ruth 2:8-9).

In response to Ruth’s wonder at the favor Boaz shows her, Boaz tells her three things about her that reflect her trust in God and how it’s worked throughout her life (verse 11). Then Boaz pronounces a blessing on her. His blessing reveals how and why the Lord’s favor is upon her—

“May the Lord repay you for what you have done. May you be richly rewarded by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge.” (Ruth 2:12)

The provisional and protective care Boaz shows to Ruth is extraordinary. It’s hard for us to see this without understanding the culture of their time. Women, especially widows, had little status in ancient culture. Foreign, Gentile (non-Jewish) women, had even less respect within Jewish culture.

Even when we receive God’s favor, we should not take it for granted. Ruth’s reply to Boaz in verse 13 shows us the appropriate and wise attitude we need to have—

“May I continue to find favor in your eyes, my lord,” she said. “You have put me at ease by speaking kindly to your servant—though I do not have the standing of one of your servants.”

Ruth’s gratitude seems to prompt Boaz to extend his favor to her further, as seen in verses 14-16 of Ruth Chapter 2. Boaz includes Ruth with the rest of his harvesters when he invites her to eat the midday meal with them. Then gives special instructions about her to his young men.

Gleanings from Ruth

We’ll examine the rest of the story next time, but consider what we’ve learned about God’s favor in this segment.

When we walk by faith with a childlike trust in God, His favor will be upon us and go before us. God opens doors of opportunity we can’t open on our own. Ruth gains a sense of significance and value because of God’s favor upon her life.

When Ruth realizes the great favor she’s received, she doesn’t take it for granted. She’s grateful for it and acknowledges this. Her gratitude seems to open further blessing and favor by Boaz.

God’s favor—His grace—flows like a stream to carry us along as we learn to rely upon Him with the abandon and commitment we see in Ruth as she trusts in the God of Israel. We need to choose to trust in the Lord, but we cannot earn or gain God’s favor because of our choice.

How do you see God’s favor at work in your life?

What have you learned about God’s favor for your life?

Reflection—

When you walk by faith with a childlike trust in God, His favor will be upon you and go before you, as He opens doors of opportunity you can’t open on your own. When you realize God’s favor in your life—acknowledge it, be grateful for it, and rest in it and in Him.

Prayer Focus—

While in prayer, learn to wait upon God—listen for Him to speak to your heart. Trust Him for His grace to fill you and carry you as you rest in His faithfulness and goodness.

Text for this devotional-study– Ruth 2:8-16 GW

This is an excerpt from the book Stories of Redemption by Trip Kimball (available on Amazon)